Fluffy ? asked:


Hi, I am getting married soon and have been discussing the future with my fiance. We both have very good, high-earning careers but will want to have kids too. We plan to take out a big loan to buy the house of our dreams…this is ok providing we both work and pay off the house loan (mortgage). However, although I want my dream home, I have always dreamt of being a stay-at-home mum too. We definitely want a child. Although my job would give me maternity for a year…I know deep inside I want to stay with my child until he/she is old enough to go to kindergarden..i.e. 3 years old and 3 years at home. The problem is this: If we decide to do this, we would not be able to go for our dream home and this would be very very disappointing. I know it may sound greedy, but I want my nice home and to spend the first 3 years of life with the child too – I think it is important for the baby. We don’t plan to have kids right away but we need to think about this when buying our house soon. Help please!

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